Meet Coach Nicole

Married over a decade, I am a former control freak turned Surrendered, Soft yet Strong woman! I can say that with confidence knowing the path I’ve walked and how my beautiful, shiny and loving marriage was birthed in the trenches. I am passionate about helping hurting wives and women reclaim their confidence, dignity and femininity and step into all God created them to be, because I feel the freedom, joy and goodness doing that for myself has brought me and my family.

Marriage is a great mirror. It shined a light on all the ways I wasn’t surrendered.  It showed me where I was clinging to false control and fear. I had to see the destruction of my control to realize it wasn’t serving me. I called myself a christian but wasn’t really trusting the Lord. I called myself a good wife, but was constantly criticizing and disrespecting my husband. This cost me intimacy with God, with my man and it also destroyed my feminine essence! I was left with emotional hangovers and always in NET (Needless Emotional Turmoil)

Now- I have discovered the only six skills I need to have a lasting and thriving marriage. I discovered the power I have to create the culture in my home. I feel heard and supported in ways I didn’t think was possible. I feel taken care of, special and adored every day. I don’t try to change my husband. I have an amazing community of women in my corner. My femininity has been restored and I am proud of the woman I am today. 

I am still a mere mortal woman and always will be, but, I am so grateful the days of cold wars, confusion and living on the fence is over!