The key for any love relationship is POLARITY.

The masculine and the feminine energies are like the poles of a magnet. Depending on where you are energetically on this pole, you will have a different relationship - whether you complement each other or continuously argue!

To restore your relationship you don’t have to do more… you just have to remember who you are

When women tell me their marriage has lost the spark or that they feel like room-mates, undesirable and like they wish their husband would man up, I know what they’re really saying is that the polarity has gone missing. The more I developed masculine qualities (control, initiation, leading, assertiveness) the more I lost touch with my true self and the more my marriage lost it’s magnetism. I thought I was just smarter and more capable than my husband but what I found out about my control shocked me… turns out, it was all rooted in fear. I was stuck in an unhealthy cycle of trying to change him leaving me feeling disappointed and disconnected. I wonder if you can relate?

become a magnet for passion, peace & intimacy

by nurturing your feminine spirit

When I started to connect back to my natural feminine essence, something amazing happened in my marriage. I started receiving the special treatment, love and connection I had been craving. (Everything that was naturally there when we first got together.) My husband had space to become the masculine counterpart I had been desiring now that he was no longer dodging my criticisms and complaints constantly.

When I say “feminine,” I don’t mean manipulative or overtly sexual. I’m talking about honoring my God given feminine spirit, which is of great worth in His sight.

Learning how to be feminine rocked my relationship and my world in the best way I can imagine.

There are no clothes, makeup, or plastic surgery that can come close to having the irresistible magnetism of the feminine spirit in a woman.

Women are the ones who hold all the power in relationships —to make it playful and fun or tense and distant. If your marriage is struggling you might currently feel like you don’t have much power at all and if your husband would just change, everything would be better. Well you’re in the right place, because as you implement the 6 intimacy skills™ and connection framework you’ll find not only will your husband change, but the surprising secret that having the power won’t mean you need to do more exhausting work - If anything, you may be doing too much right now…

The Pathway to Polarity

Founder of the 6 intimacy skills and my marriage mentor, Laura Doyle, was the perfect wife… until she got married. Her story of how she tried to get her husband to be more romantic, tidier and ambitious at work without success left her dragging him to marriage counseling and in the end, convinced divorce was the only option. The only problem was, she was too embarrassed to get divorced. So instead she talked to women who had what she wanted in their marriages and that’s when she got her miracle. The man who wooed her was back and she accidentally started a worldwide movement of happy wives, and I’m so glad she did! The Empowered Wife book shares the 6 skills in depth that lead to having amazing, vibrant relationships and was my first step to reigniting the polarity in my marriage and healing my feminine nature..

The 6 Intimacy Skills™

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Over 15,000 women in 19 languages, in 30 countries have practiced the intimacy skills with transformative results

The Connection Framework

This means never having to do it alone!

In my experience and hundreds of other women’s experience as well, reading the book alone does not get you the transformation you’re looking for. You need the connection framework which consists of coaching with a highly trained relationship coach and connecting with like minded women who are also passionate about having amazing marriages.

There is nothing like having a safe space to connect with other women and having a coach to stand for your greatness while you journey towards your vision.

The last part of the connection framework is paying it forward. Getting and giving encouragement to stay the course even when those old behaviors creep in, with no judgment, is just one way to pay it forward. Every time you share something you’ve learned, how you’re winning or celebrate other women in the community, you’re paying it forward. And I have found when you pay it forward, it always comes back to you ten fold.

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Faith, Flow & Femininity are the 3 pillars of Polarity Therapy

Faith: courage, confidence, trust

Flow: soft, surrendered, ease

Femininity: receptive, radiant, worthy

When my marriage was falling apart, I tried everything. Read all the marriage books, went to counseling and prayed constantly. It wasn’t until I discovered the six intimacy skills, chose to live out my faith over my fear and allowed polarity back into my marriage that I discovered the miracle of what a flow based feminine approach to marriage, rooted in faith could bring.